THE STORY OF ‘YOU’ – SAMPLE CHAPTERS
The Story of ‘You’ examines the ‘Natural State of Being’ in which we are born, how we lose it as we come to identify as our Personality and the effect that identification has on our health, relationships and minds. It covers how we try to escape the Suffering of Personality by the distractions of belief, desire and hope. Finally we focus on what happens when those distractions don’t work any more and a search begins to find out what is the cause of this Suffering.
The Story of ‘You’ takes the reader on a journey that touches on sociology and psychology but always leads back to the central, spiritual enquiry: “Who is this ‘you’ that appears to be experiencing its story?”
I recommend you begin by reading the Prologue for an overview of the material and keep reading in order because the themes and concepts covered build progressively throughout the discussions.
A note on capitalisations: You may have noticed I capitalise certain key words such as ‘Being’ and ‘Personality’; this is because I’m using them in a specific way. Words mean different things to different people; the effectiveness of language depends on a consensus of meaning between speaker and listener. To communicate this material effectively I have had to be clear on exactly what I mean by the use of these key words in the context of this enquiry. I explain and define them as they arise in the books. For easy reference they are also summarised in the Glossary.
PROLOGUE | |||||
BEGINNINGS |
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1 | ONENESS Before energy becomes something, it starts out as the undivided, potential energy of everything |
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2 | DUALITY When Oneness manifests as Two-ness |
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3 | THE ABSOLUTE & THE RELATIVE The interplay of two levels of reality |
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THE NATURAL STATE | |||||
4 | OUR ORIGINAL RELATIONSHIP TO LIFE Before we relate to any human, our primary relationship is with life itself |
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5 | BEING How the Original Relationship to Life manifests in a person |
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THE WORLD OF MAN | |||||
6 | SURVIVORS We are all survivors of having lost the Natural State |
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7 | THE GROUP PERSONALITY How our tribe informs the development of our Personality |
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8 | FAMILY Its parts in influencing the development of our Personality |
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9 | GENDER The influence of gender on Personality |
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CHILDHOOD | |||||
10 | THE SELF How the Natural State develops an operating centre |
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11 | IDENTIFICATION The appearance of an ‘I’ |
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12 | FORGETTING How we lose touch with the Natural State |
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13 | THE WOUND The moment we first experience estrangement from Love |
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14 | THE LOSS OF INNOCENCE How we learn that, in the world of man, love is conditional |
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15 | CONTRACTION How we learn to contract from love to protect ourselves from being hurt |
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16 | REPRESSION How the Personality consigns unwanted feelings to the sub-conscious |
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17 | EMOTION The difference between an Emotion and a feeling. |
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18 | GAINING ATTENTION What we substitute for Love |
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PERSONALITY | |||||
19 | PERSONALITY The self grows in relation to the Wound and crystallises into our Personality. |
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20 | PERSONALITY IN THE WORLD How the Personality interprets the world according to its beliefs. |
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21 | PERSONALITY AWARENESS How Personality edits our experience of life |
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22 | BELIEF The foundation of Personality |
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23 | THE DREAM How our beliefs create the Dream of the Personality |
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24 | MIND How we identify the mind as the centre of who we are |
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25 | THOUGHT How we become addicted to thinking as way to avoid feeling |
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26 | THE MASK What we wear to hide the parts of ourselves that we don’t want to be seen |
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27 | THE SHADOW The hidden side of Personality |
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OUTCOMES | |||||
28 | SUFFERING The outcome of identifying with Personality |
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29 | HEALTH The effect of identifying as the Personality on our health |
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30 | PERSONAL LOVE How, in our personal relationships, we seek to replace the Love we have lost |
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31 | RELATIONSHIP How our Personalities get played out in our relationships |
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32 | DISTRACTION How the Personality distracts itself from unhappiness |
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33 | CHASING HAPPINESS How we pursue fulfilment in the world |
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PERSONAL GROWTH | |||||
34 | PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT How we try to find happiness by rearranging the Personality |
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35 | SPIRITUAL PRACTICE What is it and does it work? |
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LIFE BEYOND PERSONALITY | |||||
36 | TEACHING THE UNTEACHABLE Pointing to what you already know |
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37 | RESISTANCE The habit of not feeling |
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38 | AWARENESS Consciousness encountering what is |
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39 | WHO ARE YOU? The ultimate question |
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GLOSSARY |